Advocating for yourself in the workplace is never easy. Add the complexities of being a neurodivergent professional, and it can feel downright intimidating. For years, I struggled to balance my unique needs with the unspoken norms of corporate life. But over time, I’ve learned that self-advocacy isn’t just necessary—it’s transformative.
In this post, I want to share my journey and offer practical tips for advocating for your needs, whether you’re navigating life as a neurodivergent professional or simply seeking inspiration for creating a workplace that values individuality.
The Challenge of Being “Different” in the Workplace
I’ve always known my brain works differently. Whether it was processing information in unconventional ways, needing extra time to think through a problem, or feeling overstimulated by a noisy office, my neurodivergence made me acutely aware of how much workplaces are designed for a “one-size-fits-all” employee.
For a long time, I thought I just needed to “fit in.” I pushed myself to attend every meeting, ignored the sensory overload, and pretended I was fine when I wasn’t. The result? Burnout. Frustration. And a sense that I couldn’t fully contribute the value I knew I was capable of offering.
The turning point came when I realized that trying to conform to expectations that didn’t align with my needs wasn’t sustainable—or fair. I needed to start advocating for myself.
Step 1: Understanding My Needs
The first step in my self-advocacy journey was figuring out what I actually needed. This might sound simple, but for many neurodivergent professionals, identifying our needs can be complicated.
For me, it meant asking questions like:
What environments help me focus and thrive?
What triggers stress or sensory overload, and how can I minimize those triggers?
What tools, structures, or schedules support my productivity and creativity?
I realized I work best in a quieter environment, benefit from clear and detailed instructions, and need breaks during long meetings to recharge. Understanding these needs was a game-changer.
Step 2: Communicating Clearly
Once I knew what I needed, I had to communicate those needs. This was the hardest part. I worried about being seen as “difficult” or “high-maintenance.” But I also knew that staying silent would only lead to more frustration.
I learned to frame my requests in a way that highlighted mutual benefits:
Instead of saying, “I can’t work in the office because it’s too loud,” I said, “I’m more productive in a quiet environment, so working from home twice a week allows me to deliver better results.”
Instead of asking vaguely for “support,” I got specific: “Noise-canceling headphones would help me focus better during busy days in the office.”
When I presented my needs as opportunities to improve both my well-being and my contributions, I found that most people were willing to listen.
Step 3: Setting Boundaries Without Guilt
Burnout is a constant risk for neurodivergent professionals, especially in fast-paced workplaces. Setting boundaries became essential for me.
I started limiting the number of meetings I attended in a day, blocking out time for focused work, and letting my team know when I needed breaks. I realized that boundaries weren’t about saying “no” to work—they were about saying “yes” to doing my best work.
Step 4: Building a Support Network
Self-advocacy doesn’t have to be a solo effort. Over time, I found allies—colleagues and managers who respected my needs and supported my growth. Having people in my corner made advocating for myself less daunting and more empowering.
Step 5: Practicing Self-Compassion
Even now, there are moments when advocating for myself feels exhausting. There are days when I second-guess whether I’m asking for too much. But I remind myself that I have the right to work in an environment where I can thrive.
Being neurodivergent isn’t a weakness—it’s a strength. And when I honor my needs, I’m able to bring my full self to the table.
Creating a Workplace Where Everyone Thrives
If you’re a neurodivergent professional, I want you to know that advocating for yourself is not only possible—it’s necessary. Your well-being matters, and your contributions are valuable.
And if you’re a leader or colleague, consider how you can make your workplace more inclusive. Simple accommodations, open conversations, and a willingness to understand go a long way in creating an environment where everyone can succeed.
💡 I dive deeper into these strategies in my latest video. Check it out to learn how to advocate for your needs and thrive in the workplace as a neurodivergent professional.
What strategies have helped you advocate for yourself at work? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Let’s keep the conversation going!
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